What I decided

After all the great comments and tips on this subject with Stefan here is what I decided to do. 

I know teens and I know that if you try to FORCE them to do something they will be sure to do the opposite. After watching that show on 20/20 last night it got me scared for Stefan.  It's just too easy to get a rap now a days for dating a younger girl.  SO I decided to call her mother and have a talk with her.  Explain to her the situation here and ask her how she plans on dealing with it there.  I would like to try something other then whats happening right now.  I know she probably thinks that this is the end of it.  But I know better.  I'm thinking maybe if we talk...hopefully she will talk and not try yelling her way through...that together we can come with a solution.  I'm hopeful that maybe we will come to a conclusion on this whole thing.  I would just tell Stefan to stop seeing her but I know that is not the way to deal with it.  They will still sneak around in school and see each other anyhow.  I mean Mels parents took her phone away so she could not text Stefan and she borrowed her friends phone for the night.  She is going to find a way to talk to him.  Kids are not dumb!  SOOO wish me luck...I'm hoping Mel still has her phone so I can ask her for her mom's number.  Seeing the legal consent age here in WI is 18 we may have a prob on our hands and I hope it doesn't turn out badly!!!  I know Stefan has a good head on his shoulders and he swears to me that sex is not what he is looking for in Mel.  He enjoys being around her...she is funny and she is very smart.  She is in all AP classes.  Stefan has always searched out smart girls.  He says the ones who get bad grades usually smoke,drink and do drugs. huh I would have never even thought of that. He says he sees it all the time in school.  And he says he's planning on waiting until he's married to have sex.  I hope that is the truth. I would be SO proud of him. 

OK on to todays happenings...tonight at 5:30 we have a wrestling meeting at the school. It's their end of year meeting where they get their T-shirts for going to state and all that good stuff! I have to bring a dessert to share.  Not sure what that will be yet.  Then we will come home and watch "Nancy Drew" we picked it up yesterday.  I have a movie review I will add later when I add the Nancy Drew one. 

Nic is totally hooked on the computer!  He is his fathers son and his brothers brother!  Thats all I have to say.  He is hooked on Nickjr.com and the games they have on their and he is GOOD at them!  He's a natural when it comes to working the computer.  He's only 3 but he has it all under control.  lol  Ok this brings me to another problem we have had with Nic.  He gets to playing and he doesn't want to go poop so he will start to go in his pants and when that happens he will finally run to the potty.  Well I got real tired of this REAL quick!  I stopped it once with sticker rewards...that got old and he started it again.  NOW I told him that every time he went poop in the potty AND there was not poop in his underwear he would get 15 min of computer time.  OH BOY has this worked!!! LOL not an accident since!  He knows he has to go he is just being to lazy!  I hope this continues to work ;)  Ok folks I better get to dishes and making bread.  Talk to you all later! 

OH by the way..Stefan has tried talking with her mom and dad but they don't want anything to do with it.